A Way of Looking at Boldness

i.

As I venture off-the-beaten-path, heading south, I throw away the mussel talisman around my neck. Instead, I rely on a bottle of Black Balsam I dragged all the way from Riga earlier in the week.

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Along the Baltic Sea, I position myself just a mere 211.8 nautical miles from Kaliningrad. Audacious is my move; it makes me sick. And two days in, I’m a horse tethered to a post. I’m so sick even the sun shining through the window is bothersome.

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Trips to the chemist, the bearer of good health, are beneficial for me but prove exhausting for my travel companion. When exhaustion turns into a toothache, our host recommends vodka to ease the pain. Six days in, we are both tethered horses immobilised by a violent flu.

iv.

Forced to stay longer than we wish to, we reluctantly extend our visit. I’m unsure if I like this place, and as my mind has to contend with the endless worst-case scenarios. It appears to be indifferent too.

v.

But Bolt is a Samaritan who runs around bringing us sustenance and takes us to the sea to bathe. And the salt water breaks the wicked spell.

vi.

Feeling relieved and with a clearer mind, we rely on a ferry to cross a body of water. Because I’m determined not to leave here without finding beauty.

vii.

The ferry deposits us at Smiltyne, a village that houses a nature museum. Our attention is on the UNESCO site, the narrow and vulnerable sand dune peninsula. peninsula. We opt for the easier path and hike to the beach.

viii.

In the forest, we encounter cheerful second-graders who have escaped the confines of a classroom. After passing them, I feel eyes on me and say, “We’re being watched.” As we turn around, we find the entire group staring.

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At that instant, one girl’s eyes light up as she exclaims, “Hello, girl!” I can’t help but burst into laughter, thinking no matter where you go, there you are! “Hello, girl,” I reply. We share a smile and part ways. “She’s bold,” says my Mr Right, who appreciates that people here rarely greet or make eye contact.

x.

A way of looking at boldness is through the actions you take, the willingness to take risks, and trust your gut.

xi.

In Klaipeda Old Town, we run into a middle-aged couple giddy like a pair of teenagers. We ask about this fountain of happiness. Without hesitation, they point us to the precise spot where happiness is served on a plate and in a glass.

xii.

After an evening of abundant happiness, I bulk up my boldness muscles and pack my rucksack, preparing to move forward. As we journey to the capital in the morn, we’re restored enough to tally all the beauty we leave behind.

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Vilnius is bold. There’s no time to hem and haw, but to take swift steps off the fence. We hold our heads high, for God is perched high up there alongside justice.

Amberton Hotel in Klaipėda boasts an impressive panoramic view

PS. A new post “A Way of Looking at Interconnectedness” is coming up next Sunday. If you’re new to this series, A Way of Looking at Autumn’s First Breath is a good place to begin.

PPS. The featured image is the Church of St. Anne and Bernardine Complex, a magnificent gothic church in Vilnius.

A Way of Looking at Kindness

i.

Clammed up, I’m an uncooked mussel as I board the bus. The lingering scent of passport checks fills the air, for we’re about to cross imaginary man-made borders.

ii.

Like a Latvian summer morning rain, I’m persistent. I insert myself into spaces and force people to make room for me, for I have packed enough cultural diversity to fill my days with nourishment. ‘Cause travelling while Black is an adventure on its own.

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I’m fallible— I expect the worst, when people mean the best.

iv.

It’s not even Thursday, yet the storm rages all night and the next. All trees bow. The pine kneels before the God of Thunder, and waits for the oak’s plea for mercy.

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Lielupe river cries floods and Jūrmala roars accusingly, demanding I let my guard down. But I am a traveller; I have neither a goat nor a rooster to sacrifice.

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I once heard milk is the food of the gods. So, my companion and I embark on a late-night quest for the fabled elixir of eternal life, only to find most shops closed. With determination, we intercept a man just as he is about to lock up for the day. We plead for a drop.

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Alas! We have not the coins, for they are too heavy to carry. With our hopes dashed, we leave the place empty-handed.

viii.

Three, four steps away, we hear a voice calling. Convinced it’s not after our attention, we continue on our way, unaffected. Another couple steps closer and the voice louder, “Hello, friend!” My companion and I come to a halt, exchange a knowing glance, and prepare to be scammed.

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Jurmala! I keep tripping myself, expecting to find deliverance in this place because Jumala means God in Finnish. Instead, I stumble upon kindness. “Here, friend! I trust these few droplets will suffice for your morning coffee,” says a stranger in the night, handing me a half-litre of milk.

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Shame remains vigilant, and early in the morn, I rush back to the shop to pay for kindness. No, the cashier won’t have it! “That was a gift from our chef,” she explains, “he overhead your pleas from the kitchen last night.” I’m at a loss for words. So, I absolve myself by stealing repeating some wise words I once heard, “My sincere thanks to the chef, who distributes the milk of human kindness. I hope he spills a little on himself.”

xi.

The smallest acts — the greatest impact — we are strangers no more.

xii.

A way of looking at kindness is through an open heart — And cultivating openness to kindness requires us to acknowledge that our personal experiences are not unique.

xiii.

Now, I’m convinced kindness is a universal language. Perhaps, we should use it more to communicate. ‘Cause it’s through the lens of kindness, the world takes on a more compassionate and understanding tone.

Jurmala Beach, Latvia

PS. A new post “A Way of Looking at Boldness” is coming up next Sunday. If you’re new to this series, A Way of Looking at Autumn’s First Breath is a good place to start.

a special note (regarding the previous post): Thank you to everyone who reached out or left a trace here. I appreciate all your comforting words and support.

This past week, I revisited one of my poems, Nomads’ Song, which feels so relevant and comforting as I hold both autumn and spring, right now … Listen to a fellow poet, Michele Lee, read the poem on her blog, “Serving iced-tea and poetry (w/audio).” The audio file is just below the second image. Thanks again, Michele, for your kindness.

Happy Autumn Equinox, Everyone! Let’s create our gratitude lists and embrace the season.

A Way of Looking at Time

i.

Despite the best efforts of countless intellectuals, time remains a fugitive. It’s hard to capture.

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Yet time is an old friend who never fails to show up. You can say we are intimately acquainted with the passage of time that we don’t notice seconds, minutes, hours, and days ticking away.

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Perhaps you look at time to measure life or to count people and things you lose and gain along the way. Then you realise life is a spectrum of pure joy and deep sadness.

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Some say life is short. Others believe life is long. You question the unfairness of it.

v.

But who wants to repeat themselves like a broken record? People die young every day. Some, on the verge of a breakthrough after years wading the tide, leave without enjoying the fruits of their labour.

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Still you wonder if this pattern is some design of a master plan. Time being the master or you being the master of your time. Whilst lost in contemplation, time outruns you.

vii.

One week, you’re thinking of composing a wedding poem for your niece. The following week brings impossible news; the couple and your nephew are all gone. A report says they ran into a truck or a truck ran into them…

viii.

In a flash, time lapses, and life is done —

ix.

Shut the front door! You’re taken aback by your initial reaction.

x.

‘Cause where are we going to shelve a wedding date absent of formality and ceremony? Who will inform all the confirmed guests? What about the bridal registry brimming with gifts? The list is endless… You all sit motionless, utterly stupefied.

xi.

Overthinking these trivial questions is procrastination. It’s a way to avoid talking. Parents lost not one child but two. Oh no, it’s actually three! What could you possibly say to them, for what kind of God plays a sick joke like this?

xii.

In a way that feels surreal, an invisible hand pulls back the curtain and you glimpse a wedding recessional. An army of long-departed loved ones, are cheering and tossing dried flowers, as they welcome the couple and the best man home. You wipe the tears away.

xiii.

A message on the wall seems to be directly addressing you as you step off the ferry in Tallinn, “Time is precious. Make the most of it.”

xiv.

You realise then that you don’t know how the heck to look at time and its preciousness, for that matter. Instead of promising to be the eyes of all your loved ones who didn’t live to see this day, you decide to live boldly.

Tallinn, Estonia

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PPS. A new post “A Way of Looking at Kindness” is coming up next Sunday. If you’re new to this series, A Way of Looking at Autumn’s First Breath, is a good place to start.

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